General Updates
Jun. 7th, 2025 10:19 amSorry for posting twice in a day (unusual for me) but I feel it's necessary.
I'm about to go on tour again, and having adventures always sparks an influx of new friends and interest in my journal posts.
That's great! But there are some things that new readers should know, and updates for longtime readers.
Here goes.
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GENERAL STUFF
POST LENGTH: Lately I've had more complaints that my posts are too long. To help with this, I'm going to start posting more frequently such that each post will cover fewer days and therefore become shorter. I'll probably start doing this once tour starts. Hopefully that will be a help.
FRIENDS ONLY POSTS: My journal is mostly public, but every once in a while I want to write something more private and personal. My Friends Only posts are usually highly personal and cover things like family matters, introspections, life/work difficulties, or exclusive sneak peeks from my life as a musician. If you can see my Friends Only posts, it means that you are one of few people that I trust with my personal details and restricted content. Friends Only posts are NOT an invitation for unsolicited advice or critique. Please keep that in mind when you find yourself reading a Friends Only entry. Thank you.
PET PEEVES: Longtime readers know this already but for new readers, I have three pet peeves when it comes to this journal:
1 - I REALLY do not like to be mansplained.
2 - I REALLY do not like unsolicited advice.
3 - I REALLY do not like being asked questions that show that you have not read my content (i.e. the answer to your question is right there in the post but you are too lazy to read it)
If you still feel a need to advise me or explain something to me, please consider A) ASKING if I've tried/thought of doing something instead of assuming that I haven't, and B) Choosing your words carefully, remembering that you're talking to someone with a lot of life experience, not a child who was just born yesterday.
COMMENTS: Believe it or not and despite the pet peeves above, I really do love the social aspect of journaling here. I like to hear your thoughts, learn about your life experiences, and answer your questions in the comments! It's easy to have a great conversation WITHOUT the pet peeves above. Let's just talk; let's just be friends.
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TOUR STUFF
IN-PERSON VISITS WHILE ON TOUR: I am ALWAYS willing to try and meet up with online friends while on tour! Keyword is TRY. If you'd like to hang out, please reach out at least few days ahead so that I can make time for you or see what's going on. Thanks!
ADDENDUM: Please don't be offended if I have to decline or cancel a visit. It is NOT personal. Touring is a lot of fun, but it's also WORK. Sometimes I need a day to rest and recover. Sometimes my schedule changes and I have to attend a rehearsal or take care of errands. Thanks for understanding this.
TICKETS TO SHOWS: In order to get you tickets, I'll need two things from you. Thing One: Reach out at least 3 days in advance to let me know that you'd like tickets. Thing Two: Tell me what DATE, TIME, and NUMBER of tickets you'd like. Once I have this info I can find out if I can offer you discounts, freebies, house seats, etc., but to do that I need this info FIRST. Thanks!
FREE TICKETS TO SHOWS: If I have free tickets available for you, I will offer them. If I have not offered free tickets, I DO NOT HAVE THEM and there is no point asking. Sorry!
SNEAK PEEKS/EXCLUSIVE ACCESS: I won't be allowed to bring people backstage or to the pit for Beauty and the Beast :( I am sorry but this is up to Disney, not me. Similarly, in this blog I will always share what I can and answer any questions that you may have about the show or tour life. That said, Disney is very protective of their content, and there will be times when I will not be allowed to share media or information. Please try to understand, and let's be appreciative of the exciting behind-the-scenes things that I WILL be allowed to share!
NOTE: My Friends Only posts sometimes include exclusive sneak peeks that are absolutely not to be copied or shared. If you can see my Friends Only posts, it means that you are one of few people that I trust with my personal details and restricted content. Please do not break that trust.
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That's all I can think of for now. I'll update this and repost it as needed.
Thank you so much for reading, and for coming along with me on this journey!
I'm about to go on tour again, and having adventures always sparks an influx of new friends and interest in my journal posts.
That's great! But there are some things that new readers should know, and updates for longtime readers.
Here goes.
--- --- --- --- --- ---
GENERAL STUFF
POST LENGTH: Lately I've had more complaints that my posts are too long. To help with this, I'm going to start posting more frequently such that each post will cover fewer days and therefore become shorter. I'll probably start doing this once tour starts. Hopefully that will be a help.
FRIENDS ONLY POSTS: My journal is mostly public, but every once in a while I want to write something more private and personal. My Friends Only posts are usually highly personal and cover things like family matters, introspections, life/work difficulties, or exclusive sneak peeks from my life as a musician. If you can see my Friends Only posts, it means that you are one of few people that I trust with my personal details and restricted content. Friends Only posts are NOT an invitation for unsolicited advice or critique. Please keep that in mind when you find yourself reading a Friends Only entry. Thank you.
PET PEEVES: Longtime readers know this already but for new readers, I have three pet peeves when it comes to this journal:
1 - I REALLY do not like to be mansplained.
2 - I REALLY do not like unsolicited advice.
3 - I REALLY do not like being asked questions that show that you have not read my content (i.e. the answer to your question is right there in the post but you are too lazy to read it)
If you still feel a need to advise me or explain something to me, please consider A) ASKING if I've tried/thought of doing something instead of assuming that I haven't, and B) Choosing your words carefully, remembering that you're talking to someone with a lot of life experience, not a child who was just born yesterday.
COMMENTS: Believe it or not and despite the pet peeves above, I really do love the social aspect of journaling here. I like to hear your thoughts, learn about your life experiences, and answer your questions in the comments! It's easy to have a great conversation WITHOUT the pet peeves above. Let's just talk; let's just be friends.
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TOUR STUFF
IN-PERSON VISITS WHILE ON TOUR: I am ALWAYS willing to try and meet up with online friends while on tour! Keyword is TRY. If you'd like to hang out, please reach out at least few days ahead so that I can make time for you or see what's going on. Thanks!
ADDENDUM: Please don't be offended if I have to decline or cancel a visit. It is NOT personal. Touring is a lot of fun, but it's also WORK. Sometimes I need a day to rest and recover. Sometimes my schedule changes and I have to attend a rehearsal or take care of errands. Thanks for understanding this.
TICKETS TO SHOWS: In order to get you tickets, I'll need two things from you. Thing One: Reach out at least 3 days in advance to let me know that you'd like tickets. Thing Two: Tell me what DATE, TIME, and NUMBER of tickets you'd like. Once I have this info I can find out if I can offer you discounts, freebies, house seats, etc., but to do that I need this info FIRST. Thanks!
FREE TICKETS TO SHOWS: If I have free tickets available for you, I will offer them. If I have not offered free tickets, I DO NOT HAVE THEM and there is no point asking. Sorry!
SNEAK PEEKS/EXCLUSIVE ACCESS: I won't be allowed to bring people backstage or to the pit for Beauty and the Beast :( I am sorry but this is up to Disney, not me. Similarly, in this blog I will always share what I can and answer any questions that you may have about the show or tour life. That said, Disney is very protective of their content, and there will be times when I will not be allowed to share media or information. Please try to understand, and let's be appreciative of the exciting behind-the-scenes things that I WILL be allowed to share!
NOTE: My Friends Only posts sometimes include exclusive sneak peeks that are absolutely not to be copied or shared. If you can see my Friends Only posts, it means that you are one of few people that I trust with my personal details and restricted content. Please do not break that trust.
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That's all I can think of for now. I'll update this and repost it as needed.
Thank you so much for reading, and for coming along with me on this journey!