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I realized today that cuts don't work over here on DW the same way that they do on LJ.
Once you click on an entry, as opposed to seeing it in the Reading Feed or in my full journal, the cuts disappear ANYWAY.
So what is the point in making them? 

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On Thursday I woke up early to do some data entry before meeting twelve of my Tootsie peers in the hotel lobby.

We were given shirts from Broadway Serves, an organization whose motto is to "be the change beyond the stage" and that works to connect theater professionals with volunteer opportunities.

Here were are in our nice clean tees before going out to sweat it out in the Florida sun.


We loaded into rental cars and drove 30 minutes to a field behind a feed store.
From there we were instructed on how to harvest peppers and maintain safety by a gentleman (I forget his name, let's call him Charles) working with CROS Ministries, a local organization that gleans crops to feed those with limited access to fresh food.

We were given latex or vinyl gloves, bottles of water, and orange Home Depot buckets.
Charles told us to be careful not to rub our eyes because peppers are members of the nightshade family and contain irritants.
He showed us what a pepper with a fungal infection looks like and asked us not to harvest those.
He showed us a pepper about the size of an apple and said anything that size or larger was fair game.

And that was that. We got to work!



My first pepper of the day was rather colorful.


Most peppers were dark green and difficult to spot among the dark green plant leaves.
I learned to gently push the plants around to feel if there was weight on the ends of the branches, which usually meant at least one harvestable pepper. In this way I filled my bucket several times over the next three hours.


A row over from me one of our cast members started yelling that she'd found a toad.
Had to catch it!


We took turns holding it. It was pretty big!


We continued gleaning as the sun got stronger.
Our goal was to fill the large blue pallets on the main path.
We ended up filling 5-6 of these, which is about 2500-3000 pounds of peppers. Wow!


The first hour or so went easy, but it was a lot of bending and reaching and twisting, and walking through the rows to empty your bucket was tricky because there were slippery rotten peppers to walk over and swarms of gnats and flies that flew up as we passed. The sun got stronger as time went on. When I started feeling tired I thought about all the people who have to do this work not because they want to, but because they have to survive. For me it was a temporary way to help. For some people, gleaning is the whole life outlook.

We ended up stopping about 30 minutes early because we filled all of the pallets laid out for us.
Plus the cast had a rehearsal directly afterward and needed time to get cleaned up.
We each grabbed a pepper and posed in front of one of our pallets.


This was really rewarding work, and I'm grateful that Brian organized it for us.
This is the kind of stuff that I WANT to do...activity with purpose.
I hope that we'll get to do more. Brian implied that there would be other chances.

Here is Brian, btw. He's not only talented, but also charitable and caring :)


Back at the hotel I washed rotten pepper juice off my shoes in the tub, then had a shower myself and did a load of laundry.
Just my luck, the dryer somehow balled all of my clothing up, so I had to iron every single shirt and pair of pants.
After that I had lunch and drank lots of water and chilled out until it was time for the show.

The show went well, nothing to report.
Soto (MD) has been conducting us for the past two days, but I think tomorrow we're back to having Josh in the MD seat.
It's cool that they can switch out like that; it gives each of them a chance to stay fresh on the show and hear/see it from the audience perspective. I hope they'll both have musical notes for us from what they've seen and heard while doing their switcharoo.

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Friday, I actually slept until 8am for the first time in a while.
Had a nice slow morning.

I had gotten the rental car keys from Bill the night before, and used that to get to Dr. Limon for lunch.

It's a clean, modern-looking restaurant downtown.
There was kind of loud club music going, and the lighting was dim...I think it's really meant to be a nighttime dinner/drinks/tapas place.
There were three or four women in the kitchen and serving, all of whom were super nice and excited to explain Peruvian food when they found out I was there to try it for the first time.

They start each table with a little bowl of cancha, which is toasted corn kernels from a specific type of corn that puffs when toasted but doesn't pop like popcorn. With the cancha was a little shot of some sort of vegetable juice, I didn't catch the name of it but it tasted like a carrot-heavy V8 or a bloody mary mix. Both were very delicious, especially the corn which was scalding hot and fresh and crispy-crunchy!


Since it was early in the afternoon I got a glass of white wine as well. What the heck.

After asking the server a lot of questions, I decided to do the causa sampler.
Causa is a sort of mini-casserole, typically served as a little round cake (see a picture HERE).
It's made of yellow potatoes, mashed and mixed with crushed peppers and a little lemon or lime juice, then filled with a meat or vegetable salad and shaped using a ring mold.

Instead of being shaped into a cake, the sampler had the mashed potato served in meatball-sized spheres, topped with the meats that would normally be used as filling and drizzled with colorful tasty sauces.

The flavors are, from closest to farthest: tuna salad, octopus, crawfish(?), shrimp, and chicken salad.


Not my best photography, but the lighting was dim.
The plating was gorgeous, and it also tasted wonderful. Very fresh, and each little sample a distinct flavor.
The chicken and tuna salads were pretty standard, just like what you'd have on a chicken or tuna salad sandwich.
My favorites were the octopus because of the unique flavor and big tender tentacle chunks, and the crawfish because it was sweet but also tangy (the sauce on that one was incredible). The sauces, by the way, are a sort of thin aioli made by mixing mayonnaise with misc complementary flavors and colorings.

With food like that, I'd even brave the nighttime club vibes to come here again!

Luckily this was a pretty light meal (I didn't eat all of the potato balls) so I didn't feel overful.
I went for a little walk to a nearby Burlington for no reason other than it was 1.5 miles away, which would give me a 3-mile walk round trip on a nice sunny day. There were a few inland canals on the route, and I saw turtles and fish and even some iguana, but no manatees or alligators. Found nothing of interest at Burlington, but hadn't expected to.

Walked back and checked the Manatee Lagoon live cam to see if it was worth a drive out there to see manatees. No luck, so gave up on that idea. So it was a normal afternoon of chill until showtime.

We DID in fact get a sheet of notes for review.
This is the first time since I joined Tootsie, after 360-some shows, that we've ever gotten printed notes.
I was glad to get them, too. Being able to tweak your performance to be better, and to be in agreement with your musical peers, is super important (and also gives you a project and reason to be more involved in a show you've performed 360-some times!)

The show went well I think, but I was tired and developed a BRUTAL migraine so did not play my best :(
Some days are like that, but I was unhappy with myself for not taking a painkiller earlier so my performance wouldn't suffer.

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Saturday was a busy day, two shows and a visit with some step-family between shows.

I made sure to pack everything I'd need to bring to the theatre since I wouldn't be coming back to the hotel before the last show.
The matinee was delayed because there was a car fire on the interstate causing a traffic backup (sheesh!), but once we got rolling it went as usual. Oh, wait, the fire alarm went off during intermission. We found out later that it was because the theatre next to ours was using foggers and left some door open that should have been closed.

After the show I met my step-aunt outside, she was there with a good friend.
They drove me to Howley's Restaurant, which was a really cool vintage diner-like place along South Dixie Hwy.
Everything from the tables to the rotating pie display to the rounded chrome hand dryers in the bathroom screamed "1950s".

My aunt had an open-faced meatloaf sandwich; her friend had a classic reuben that looked amazing.
I had a "TV dinner" featuring beef brisket.


What a cute presentation!
I think of "brisket" as a smoked or BBQ thing, but this was pretty much chunks of chuck.
Not complaining, it was quite good. Classic comfort food.
We also had "Southern spring rolls" for an appetizer, they were egg rolls filled with brisket and "cream cheese collards" served with a tangy honey mustard dip. Super bad for you but super delicious. It was worth being over my calories for the day to enjoy them :)

In all honestly, I don't know my step-aunt very well. The conversation mostly focused on either aspects of my work, or step-family drama, or her ailments. Which was fine, we only had a short time anyway.

Back at the theatre we hugged and parted ways, and then I checked my texts and discovered that our keyboardist (Sam) had tested positive for covid. What drove him to get tested I'm not sure, because he says he felt fine, but anyway there it was.
Poor Josh (MD) had to play both books AND conduct the show.
We've done this before so it went as good as it could go, however it's a lot of work for Josh to have to take on.
Soto (our other MD) had just gotten back to his home in New York, but he'll be flying back down to join us in Sarasota and cover that keyboard book while Sam is quarantined in West Palm.

On top of that, our reed 2 had food poisoning :(

Never a dull moment!

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Sunday, I was grateful that we only have one show this afternoon AND that we will be busing to Sarasota (means we don't have to weigh our luggage).

We carpooled to the theater and had our last show, again with Josh playing both books.
It was a fairly good audience and the show went smoothly.

I had some low-key anxiety because it freaks me out when my coworkers are not feeling well.
Consider that my parents both died of awful diseases--and my friend Slick who was a trumpet player on the circus died of cancer and stood next to me in pain for a year and a half prior to his death while I hyperventilated and panicked every single day because there was nothing I could do to help him--and I think it's understandable that my fight-or-flight kicks in when people suddenly disappear due to covid, or are sitting next to me playing with a stomach bug. I just have a hard time with it, sometimes.

Anyway, ultimately everyone is fine and the show was fine.
We packed up, I refilled the rental car's tank, had a weird dinner of random leftover food items in my room, and watched an episode of The Last Of Us instead of the Super Bowl because I despise how our society values sports over STEM so I will be one less set of eyes riveted to what steriod-saturated meatheads and their beer-soaked fandom are doing.

Tomorrow we have a four hour bus ride to Sarasota, and it's a "load and go" so we'll have a show a few hours after we arrive.

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After another night in a random hotel, I woke up, had breakfast, and hit the road.
I landed in Richmond in order to get a matching tire for my unexpected new tire.
For those who didn't know, when you buy tires you're supposed to buy all four at once, or at least buy them in pairs, and also ensure that they're the same brand/style so that they will wear evenly. Buying random tires at random times, or different brands of tires to be used simultaneously, can cause uneven wear, alignment and shock/strut problems, etc. Or so I've been told.

I've been driving several hundred miles with three nearly-done tires and one brand new tire. This is not ideal for my car.
The least I could do is get a second new tire so that they'll wear evenly.

I found a shop in Richmond that could get the tires in, and they were able to put it on in under 30 minutes.
I promised to come back on my way back down to FL for two more new tires. Then I hit the road again.

Being in Richmond was nostalgic. Because of the circus.
There are between 40-80 major cities across the US that I visited during my five years with the circus.
In any of those cities, there are areas that as soon as I set foot in them, it's like a map opens up in my mind.
I suddenly know that around that corner, there's a monument of a hunter holding a duck and a hidden glassblowing shop.
Or in this case, in Richmond, I knew that the section of highway I was passing over had an art installation hanging directly underneath the overpass I was on. Because I had walked there and had seen it from below. After getting the tire put on I drove to a nearby Kroger and when I pulled into the parking lot, felt the map open up in my mind, the map I had forgotten was there. I knew that there was a university one block over, and a Whole Foods just about a mile away in the opposite direction, and had a sense of which way to walk to reach the arena where we had performed all those years ago.

Ah. Nostalgia hurts.

From there I basically drove straight home, stopping only for gas and potty breaks.
I finally arrived around dinnertime, right before my dad got home from work.
My mom (she's my stepmom, but I think it's fair to call her "mom") showed me her garden, which is much larger than the last time I saw it. She now has big beautiful fig trees, and a peach tree just covered in fuzzy little preformed peaches, and irises and sunflowers and loads of other great plants. I even found a baby praying mantis on her strawberries!



We ate BLTs and caught up a little bit, then collectively decided to do some chores as we all had work to catch up on: my dad needed to finish putting siding on part of the roof, my mom needed to plant her herbs because they've started to wilt, and I needed to do at least some steno practice as I've now missed two classes. We reconvened about an hour later and sat outside for a bit, enjoying the mid-70s weather. I didn't sweat at all! How glorious.

The next morning I woke up nice and energetic, having had three full nights of sleep in a row! What a concept.
I was enlisted to help out at the local charity, which is called Agape. My parents are both heavily involved in it; my dad made the logo.




My mom runs the kitchen operations, deciding what to cook for the volunteers who work to sort and stock and distribute donations all day. Because they need to eat too. Today's menu was BLTs, burgers, or taco salad, and sides of mac and cheese or roasted veggies. I helped to prepare the food, and then helped to serve it. It was surprising how long it took to prepare all that food even with like ten of us in the kitchen. We served probably about 50 people, then had to clean up and give out the leftovers. We had started around 9:30am, and by the time it was all said and done it was about 2:30pm. Sheesh. I wish she were getting paid. But she does get a lot of free food from it, so there's that.

Back home it was more food prep because we were going to visit my sister Kate, who just had her baby a week and a half early. She's vegetarian, so we wanted to make her some vegetarian food. We brought a lot of leftover mac and cheese from Agape, and supplemented with our own roasted vegetables, and a "buffalo dip" made using cream cheese, hot sauce, and shredded jackfruit served on naan bread. By the time we were done making it dad was home from work, and we all drove over to her house together.

My sister lives in a huge house up on a hill, owned by some locals who use it to store their junk while they travel the world or something. She's lived there for at least a decade, and has thought about/planned to/tried to move out several times, but somehow always ends up staying where she is. I can understand why, it's a REALLY nice house, and it would be hard to find another so ideally constructed and located without building it yourself (which under the constrictions and volatility of the post-covid world, is not a possibility for them).

Anyway, as we came up the front step I admired both her wild and domestic garden. She has blackberries and mint and all kinds of wildflowers growing naturally, and then has planted misc herbs and veggies. Being in such a remote area, there is tons of wildlife and just a natural abundance that is beautiful to see.

Inside Kate came to meet us holding Declan, her son, my nephew. What a strange thing, to see him there in person.
And my sister too! It's been almost two years!! She looks amazing as always, though I'm sure she'd like more sleep!
Declan is a "good" baby for the most part, but like any baby he has his moments and doesn't always stick to a routine.

My mom took a turn holding him, and then it was my turn.




My dad kindly took the photos.
While holding him and looking at him, I wasn't thinking at all about how he carries our mother's DNA.
I guess now that he's here, he's more than something so abstract. He's his own person, and although I hope to see elements of our mother in him, I won't be actively expecting them. It is nice that her line can continue on, that's all.

I also didn't feel one molecule of maternal instinct/desire/emotion. Kate began wanting a child from the moment she held Elliotte, our sister's baby. I have no idea what it's like to WANT a child. Never have I ever. I didn't even play with dolls or baby dolls as a kid, and never once had an interest in children or child-rearing. Babysitting was a job from hell, I would have much rather cleaned an entire house than spent a few hours alone with some kid.

But you get the idea. Better her than me. Declan is beautiful, and I am sure he will grow up to be an amazing person!

We had dinner together, which was very nice and very much needed. It's been way too long for everyone.
We only stayed for a few hours because the baby needed to be fed and changed and Kate and Pat looked very tired as all new parents do.
As we were leaving, we saw a doe and her fawn out in the yard. I took this quick video of the inquisitive fawn.

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The next day, I have to admit I was getting a little bit anxious about having missed two steno classes and not having submitted any work to make up for it. This anxiety impacted my interactions with my mom for the day; I had offered to take her out on her errands, but she always takes SO LONG with everything. We seriously spent a whole five minutes comparing the price of oatmeal by weight and volume at Walmart. Exasperated, I complained that it's just oatmeal, how is it worth spending so much time hyperventilating over whatever fraction of a cent you might save by buying this-or-that brand? Who cares? Just buy the damned oatmeal so we can move on!

She was patient with me, and after my outburst, reminded me that because she can't see (she has glaucoma) she can't drive.
Because she can't drive, she must rely on others to help with her grocery shopping and errands.
And because of this dependence, she is embarrassed to ask, she doesn't like to inconvenience others, and so doesn't get to shop very often at all, ANYWHERE.

Grocery shopping, which is something I take very much for granted, is a special outing for her.
She doesn't get to take her time and enjoy shopping, even for something stupid like oatmeal.
So when she does get to go, it's a big deal for her, and she does take a lot more time than a normal person would.
I knew this, but I didn't KNOW this. I didn't think about it, and I wasn't considerate about it.
Yes, I have to do my steno. But I'm not going to get kicked out of school for not doing it, or for turning in the work late.
My mom can only have a full day of shopping when I'm here. My sisters can't even help with that any more because they've got kids now, and the kids' needs come first. So I'm IT, when I'm in town. Which is basically never.

I felt very bad after this, and apologized. And was forgiven of course, but I am definitely going to keep a lid on my attitude for the rest of the week when it comes to taking her on her errands. I wanted to help her, and I want it to be a pleasure for her, not a stressful outing that I ruin with my school anxiety.

After running errands there was plenty of time for me to work on steno. I was able to submit one class and get started on the homework, which is more than I had expected to get done. Then when my dad got home from work my parents treated me to China Buffet! Yes, its very crappy Americanized Chinese food. But that's exactly why it's such a treat! It's something I would never normally eat. In fact, I can't remember the last time I went to a China Buffet, but it was years ago, at least five years. I enjoyed all of my bad-for-you favorites like egg custard cup, buttery flounder, honeyed chicken, stuffed mushrooms, and crispy green beans (I wish I could make these myself but never seem to get it right). I also got to try frog legs because they had them for some reason!



They were pretty good, tasted almost exactly like chicken but a little chewier, kind of like chicken thigh meat.
I would have preferred a different seasoning, but as it was I ate the whole leg and enjoyed it.

In the evening I drove out to Wilkes-Barre to pick up my sister Raven from the bus stop, she came in from NYC.
She works in some administrative capacity for Vox magazine, and was very stressed out because it's a bad time for her to be away from work.
I listened to all the stresses she's experienced recently, and shared some of my own, and we both comiserated about some of the small-town racism and closed-mindedness we had already experienced in Bloomsburg, me in the last few days, her in just the few short hours she'd been on the bus. Apparently a lot of locals have some kind of personal problem with "Juneteenth" being declared a federal holiday. I guess they're already seeing a Juneteenth tax coming out of their paychecks? Perhaps a black person has come and taken their money directly out of their pockets, or food out of their childrens' mouths, using Juneteenth as an excuse?

I love my hometown, and there are many beautiful things about it. But a lot of the locals are such racist, backwards BABIES.
If you are a full-grown adult man, and you have time to bawl to your neighbors about an event that has zero impact on your actual life, maybe it's time to take a step back and think about what kind of person you are. But these people won't.

Anyway, I got her safely to Kate's house and then booked it back to my parents' house, where they had a full-on bonfire going in the backyard.
It was a cool mid-70s evening, lovely breeze, and the warmth of the fire and smell of the firewood was wonderful. It was nice to just sit and talk and enjoy their company.

En route to bed I texted Jameson to see how he's doing. I know he's probably up a lot later and eating not so great (always happens when I leave for extended periods) but he needs space to be himself, too. He's doing gigs at Epcot this weekend, and hopefully staying hydrated.

Today, Saturday, my parents are out running errands while I type this up and then do some more steno.
Eventually I'll head over to Kate's to spend time with her and my brother and sister and nephew, for lunch and probably most of the afternoon.
Tonight I'll hopefully get to do some more steno, because everything is due tomorrow and although I won't get everything done, I'd like to submit as much as I can. On that note, off I go.

PS, here is the handmade quilt on my parents' bed.

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Hmm, let's see.

On Sunday Jameson and I had a date night! We had a nice dinner at Marlow's Tavern...Jameson got a tasty black-and-blue burger with a side of jalapeno grits, and I had the shrimp and white cheddar grits! Freaking delicious!



Then we went to see the second LEGO movie! It was good, but not as funny as the first one. I think it might have been geared toward a younger crowd. But it was still well done and very enjoyable.

On Monday I had more "work" for my future life plans or whatevs. I got to see a lot of cool stuff that I wish I could share with you. Oh well. :p
Once that was done I picked up dinner and came home to do more work, watch TV with Jameson, and look for jobs. Any jobs. You know, I was all excited to have more interviews this year, yet once again I seem to be getting passed over. I wish I had any idea why. I'm trying to be positive, but some of the frustrations are creeping back. What is it? Am I not good enough? Am I doing something wrong? This is supposed to be a good economy right now...why is it that I can't find a job? Just, why? Honestly, I'm still upset. It's upsetting. I mean, I'll bite my tongue and try not to, like, aspire to anything and be grateful for whatever I end up with. But just, why?

Sorry, some days are harder than others, and today as I'm typing this it's a hard day.

Anyway, on Tuesday I didn't have anything to complain about because I got to spend the morning relaxing and the evening going to Disney with Jameson and Tom and his wife Jennifer! Tom was a keyboardist in the circus band, and we have a lot of fond memories together. Time to make some more!

We met them near the tram station, and after a quick meal, it was time to ride some rides! We hit Haunted Mansion and that train mine ride, and the new Snow White/Seven Dwarves mine ride which was very similar but more modern. All of them were a ton of fun, I screamed like an idiot on every turn! Of course Jameson and I had to have our Dole Whips, delicious as always. When it was time for the fireworks we found a spot in front of the castle. Because this was a special event for Disney Vacation Club (Tom's wife is a member) the crowd was light and we were able to get quite close!

I didn't record the whole thing because I was busy experiencing it, and I know that there are already many high-quality videos of this out there. So here are both of the fireworks shows, "Once Upon A Time" and "Happily Ever After". I was absolutely blown away by the holographic mapping of the castle. There were times when I swear the towers were dancing, or burning, or even launching into space! Really! Check it out.



After that we had another snack, then rode some more rides like It's A Small World, Pirates, and the Buzz Lightyear shooting game (I won for once!!).


Too soon we had to leave because I had to get up early the next morning for a thing. Tom and Jennifer walked us back to the entrance, and we parted with hugs and promises to see each other again soon. What awesome people.


The next morning I felt exhausted and like another cold was coming on (didn't I JUST freaking have one of these?? God.) There was a lot to do and I went and did it. I learned a lot and had a good day even though I was tired. Back at home I was surprised to find a large package for me. My parents had sent my Christmas stocking, and a birthday present! Look at this quilt!! It was handmade by one of my mom's friends. The coloring is exactly my style, and there are little blue clovers sewn into the edges. I absolutely LOVE it!


In fact, because I wasn't feeling well, I bundled myself right up and fell asleep on the couch wrapped in it!

On Thursday I still had to get up early for some volunteer time at Audubon. They'd sent an email asking for help, and since I'm missing my volunteer time because of my Secret Activities or whatever, I felt bad and decided to step up. And what do I get for scraping rat guts off the perches and bird poop off the walls? A threat display from this vulture. C'mon man! I'm doing you a favor! ;)

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Seriously though, it's easy work to do and doesn't take long. I cleaned the hawk mews and logged all of their food, then drove home to eat lunch and get changed for Ain't Misbehavin'. The show went well, and there were TONS of treats in the green room because of Valentine's Day! I had a piece of cake made by Musical Director Chris...this wasn't just any chocolate cake, it was Guinness stout chocolate cake with whiskey fudge icing! So freaking goooood


I snagged a piece for Jameson, then went to The Coop to pick up dinner as both of us were feeling tired and in no mood for eating out. Back at the house we enjoyed fried chicken and catfish, sweet potatoes in a spicy glaze, cornbread, and other goodies. As we ate we watched Bohemian Rhapsody. This was Jameson's eigth time seeing it(!) but he's a massive Queen fan so he didn't mind! It was my first time seeing it, and it was amazing. There was no one like Freddie Mercury. As Jameson said to me after we watched it, thank God he lived in a time where his music and abilities could be recorded and shared around the world. What an incredible influence on ALL of us.

On Friday I had two shows. I was supposed to go to the gym but my cold was kicking my a$$ so I skipped it in favor of extra sleep. Both shows went well. I decided to record some of my solos, for the memories.



On Saturday (today) I'm typing this in my pajamas. Just finished breakfast, and Jameson is just now eating his. In a few minutes I'll go to the gym. Jameson is going to hang out with some friends at Epcot, and I've got one Ain't Misbehavin' show today. Tonight we'll probably have a simple dinner and just enjoy each other's company :)
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I'll try to avoid boring you with my back-to-average life.

On Sunday Jameson and I went looking for patio furniture (his parents got us a gift card for some!) We got some ideas, but since it was pouring rain we didn't buy anything just yet. We'll wait for the sun :)

Instead we had a nice pizza from a local place. Four different mushrooms on cheese and pesto. Yum!



Then we watched RENT live. Jameson was disappointed to say the least. He's played the musical before, and apparently there were a ton of edits and cuts, many of which didn't make sense to the storyline. Personally I don't know RENT well enough to get disappointed haha. The staging was nice. Some of the "vocalists" were weak.

I don't recall doing anything special on Monday other than visiting Target. Jameson made us chicken breasts and roasted brussels sprouts, a nice healthy dinner that we've enjoyed together many times. I applied for jobs while he played Kingdom Hearts and graded his students' work. Later on we watched British Baking Championship, followed by The Good Place.

Tuesday, we decided to order the patio furniture! We also got a rug for the deck. We had a nice lunch at SusHI, then came home to rest a bit. I took some clothes to the thrift store, then bought a few things that I'll need later in the week and got ingredients for meatloaf. I made the meatloaf and we enjoyed it while watching TV and doing internet things.

Wednesday, I had volunteer work for the Audubon Center for Birds of Prey early in the morning. It went well. I'm still getting harassed by the cara caras, as you can see.

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When I was finished there I got cleaned up and drove out to Apopka to interview with a pet cemetery and cremation service. You might be thinking, "That's weird and morbid". Well you know what I was thinking? "That's a job, and one of few places that has actually responded to my application". And I've worked stranger jobs than this. The interview went well and I think it would be a nice place to work. Before leaving I went out back to see the cemetery and take a few pictures.



This German Shepherd statue is to memorialize service dogs.


This was the oldest headstone I could find in the cemetery, for a dog named Bon Bon.


I drove back home and arrived just as Jameson was heading out to the gym. I want to start going to the gym too, but first I need to get this work thing settled. While he was gone I looked up some scholarships and made a few phone calls, and had some nice tea :) In the evening we ate leftovers and watched the finale of British Baking Championship together.

Thursday, I had a job interview first thing in the morning. It's with a Closed Captioning company, so there were some tests involved. First I had to read out loud, then I had to dictate a recording of someone else speaking. Next there was a typing test, followed by a spelling test. I did very well, but it was nerve-racking! I will have a phone interview with this company tomorrow.

I came back home and had some lunch before heading over to Winter Park Playhouse. The show went well. Afterward I met up with Jameson at his workplace. He and two of his coworkers wanted to try an Escape Room together! We had a quick dinner then went to the room. It was called "The Woods", and the storyline had us exploring the woods to find cryptic messages left by an astronomer who had mysteriously disappeared. Fun!

We got off to a great start. Each of us found great clues, and between our four brains we were able to complete the first room and enter the second. But right at the second-to-last clue, we got stuck. We asked our room monitor for clues, and that got us a little further, but then we hit a serious snag. A frustrating snag. An issue that had nothing at all to do with our abilities. In fact, we had the correct answer, but were unable to open the lock. We tried and tried, but after several tries we had to assume that we had somehow gotten it wrong.

In other words, we ran out of time and lost the challenge. The room monitor came in and opened the lock for us, using the combination that we'd had and tried ourselves several times. That was more than a little annoying. This is the first Escape Room I've lost and to be honest I was not pleased that the reason we lost was due to something so stupid. But, whatever. The process was fun at least, and we were a great team! Yay us!!

Friday, I had two shows to play. Jameson and I spent the morning chilling out. After my first show I came home with dinner and we ate together while watching The Good Place, then and assembled the table we'd ordered from Target for the porch. The chairs will be arriving soon too, and then we can hang out outside more often :) The evening showing of Ain't Misbehavin' went well, we got a standing ovation!

On Saturday (today) I had a nice fairly slow morning, getting tax paperwork together and making a writing sample for another interview. I went to Target for a few things, then came back home to write this blog. Later I've got two shows, and Jameson will be coming to the later one! I'm also going to have dinner at The Coop, a local Southern restaurant with chicken and waffles!

It's been a good yet frustrating week. I've had lots of job interviews, which is great, but no official offers yet. Maybe that's for the best, as February is going to be a busy month. I'm just tired of always being in limbo. For the longest time, I was able to hold every single job I had for a minimum of two years. I guess those days are gone in this economy and with my skills set...but sometimes I wish for a little stability.

A Blur

Jan. 21st, 2018 08:24 pm
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This was another week where there was a lot to do, and I didn't keep track of it all.

Jameson had rehearsals and gigs, and I had rehearsals for an Orlando Concert Band concert at the end of the week. We were both very busy, and I didn't get home until late most nights. In addition to playing in the concert band, I have also been elected Operations Coordinator. I was very nervous about the concert because of the setup inside the host church. I've never done this sort of thing before, and wasn't sure if I had the right idea.
Seating chart that I ended up making (99% based on last year's seating chart in this same church):



Seating as it turned out in reality (thanks to one very hardworking harpist who showed up early and did everything by himself):


Seating was tight and uncomfortable, but I've been told it always is for this venue, and there just isn't a whole lot to be done about it. So I was heartened when we had our dress rehearsal, and no drastic seating changes were required.

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I can't believe it's the end of August already.

This week was still not as busy as I expected, but at some point we're just going to get hit with the rental crowd, can't exactly predict when that will be. Most of what's going on at the store right now is to prepare for that. Making sure we have enough instruments to rent, enough accessories in stock, etc.

Somewhere in there (was it Thursday? Friday? Can't remember) my boss decided that we should have a drainage ditch outside the store. When it rains really hard the water pools right at the entrance, and it's really difficult for people to get in and out, plus it creates a huge muddy mess. So he got out the power washer and started hosing away, then Kristy (repair tech) had to dig a trench next to the sidewalk while my boss went to the hardware store for pipes. Meanwhile the hose for the power washer was running directy through the center of the store. There's a bucket under the leaky section.



At the same time, we got a huge shipment of T-shirts that are going to be given out as a freebie to anyone who rents an instrument in-store. While Matt and Kristy were doing construction, I got them sorted, folded, and put away.


At the end of the day we had several customers looking for percussion equipment, which led to the realization that some things were missing for rental season. This led to a slew of frantic orders, cancellations, phone calls, and emails. That trend continued into Saturday thanks to changes in the method books that teachers are using. Hooray retail.

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Usually when I write this, I write a little bit every day so as not to forget what happened during the week.

Um...this week I didn't do that.

Let's see. Monday, work. Tuesday, work.
We are getting ready for rental season, so there's an influx of student instruments. A local string teacher came in on Tuesday so we made sure to have our string instruments and accessories in order for her to see what we offer. She and Kristy (woodwind tech) had met before, so they hit it off, talking about teacher-y stuff while I listened and worked on inventory. The visit went well and by the end of it I had a list of even more accessories to order for her students :)
On Tuesday I went to the gym.

Wednesday, work. Thursday, work.
Thursday was a "special" day from the moment I opened my eyes. I woke tense and tired, as there had been a huge thunderstorm the night before. Turned on the light in the bathroom and threw back the shower curtain, and there was a HUGE brown recluse in the tub. If I had been more awake I might have grabbed my phone and taken a picture. He looked like this (but wasn't carrying any cash ;) ):



I thought, "Ok, I'll just wash him down the drain." I turned on the water...
...and the shower head cracked right down the middle, shooting water in all directions.

What a great start to the day!!!

I squashed the spider (tough luck bro) and got a pseudo shower without a shower head. Then I drove to the city courthouse to try and get some paperwork for my Missouri Driver's License and vehicle registration. You need a tax non-assessment to register your car in this state. To get that, I thought that you needed to provide a lease, a utility bill with your address on it, and two forms of ID. What I ACTUALLY needed was leases from the past three years, utility bills from the past three years, vehicle registrations from the past three years, and two forms of ID.

This was a problem, because I've been on tour for the past five years. I had no utility bills and no lease. My brother was driving my car. Most of my mail had my employer's address on it, because that's where I was living, not my parent's PA address. I tried asking about alternative documents (Taxes? Stuff with my employer's address?) and was told that these would not be acceptable.

.....um. How am I supposed to register my car??

Next week I will call some government offices and see if there's a solution.

The rest of the day went normally. I had planned to go to the gym again, but we had a barrage of customers right at closing time, so I got out late. Starting next week we're going to have later hours to accommodate rental season.

Friday was a pretty good day, I felt like I got a lot done. I placed an order for more string accessories, drew up a tentative order for some method books, sold a trombone that we'd just gotten in the store 48 hours earlier, and input lots of instrument repair orders for us to bill out. My boss had given me some chicken stew over mashed potatoes, made by his brother who is an excellent cook. Yay free lunch! After work I went to the gym, then got groceries.



This weekend was a bit busy. In the morning I listed some instruments on eBay for a circus friend who is selling some of his belongings. At the same time I boiled eggs and pasta for the week ahead. At some point in there I heard a minor ruckus out on the porch. When I went to investigate I found two male hummingbirds duking it out over the feeder. They were so intent on each other that they hardly noticed me.


Mean little dudes!

After lunch I decided to revisit a local community college to see if I could find practice rooms. I had tried last week, but went to the wrong building...the practice rooms were in a office building across campus. This time I went there, and soon found them. There are only four. These signs were on the door:



In other words, they do actually allow non-music personnel to use the facilities. That's nice! Looking at the sign-up sheets, I saw that most of them end around 4:30. That's good, as I'd probably be there either super early or super late. With this, maybe I can start practicing again.

I had intended to practice that day, but decided against it as I had errands to run. I took my car to get an oil change at one of those places that are supposed to be quick, and was disappointed to end up waiting about an hour. Not only that, they didn't have a waiting room because their turnaround is supposed to be fast enough that you don't have to even get out of your car. So I sat in my car and fidgeted for an hour. Not fun.

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Monday started off pretty busy at work. It seemed like every time I started a project, another one would pop up to demand my attention. Still, I got some things done.

Tuesday, I spent most of the day creating contact lists. Not just for me, but for the company, for our systems, for everyone to access. I made sure the contact info for all of the schools that BAC services was up-to-date and as complete as possible in the database, and used that information to create mailing lists and file folders. Hopefully all of that will come in handy for rental season.

Afterward I had hoped to practice a little bit, but decided against it. There are still so many things that I need to take care of here...health insurance and car registration, inspections and transfers and banking and lots of other things, most of which (of course!) will have to be done during working hours. And it seems like more to-do items pop up each day. After my first visit to the apartment complex gym and some serious thought, I realized that there was no way I was going to be working out there. Of the two ellipticals only one seems to work, and the weight station can only be used by one person at a time. That's why instead of practicing trombone on Tuesday, I went to Planet Fitness to get membership paperwork. Then I went to Target for a mattress pad, because my bed is uncomfortable. As stupid as this sounds, I was in denial about waking up in pain and numbness every morning. I didn't want to spend more money on more household stuff that I don't care about. But sleep is important. So mattress topper it is, and a new pillow too.

Wednesday started off in a pretty frustrating way. I learned that there were several packages for me at my apartment complex office, some of which had been sitting there for more than a week. Yet I had not been notified of their existence by either the postal service or the office. When I called the office to find out why I hadn't been notified, the response was "We don't have time to notify people." Ok then. From now on I'm having things mailed to work (really grateful that my bosses are cool about this) plus I'm going to stop by the office every Saturday and make them sort through the mail to see if I have anything. Seems like that would be a hassle for them, but if that's the way they want to do it, cool.

After dealing with that first thing in the morning, I went to the shop to grab a horn for delivery to the factory, then the rest of the day was pretty normal although I felt like I got very little done. Some days are like that. Since some of the packages I'd unknowingly received had been sitting there for weeks, I decided to hustle out of work to get back home before the office closed. I quickly clocked out and power-walked to my car...and even though I was in this big cranky hurry, I had to stop and smile at this black and white rabbit that was unexpectedly sprawled out next to my car.



Sometimes it only takes one little thing to put things in perspective.
Sometimes it only takes one little kindness to get you through a day.

I got to the office in time and got my packages. Two of them were bank cards, one of which had been cancelled by me, assumed lost in the mail. The third was an unexpected gift: a "Happy New Apartment!" present from Mr. and Mrs. Boyce! Inside was a gift card to a HomeGoods store, a trombone-themed card, and this awesome (and very appropriate!) journal. Thank you, Jeff and Kathy. You two are incredibly thoughtful and wonderful. This really made my day.



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Due to a large storm system moving across the country, many flights were cancelled or delayed.
Several circus folks were caught up in the reshuffling of flights. But I think everyone got to where they were going eventually. Jameson and I left from IND in the afternoon (our flights were at a similar time).
My first flight was on time and very nice. I snapped this pic as we were descending.



The next flight was...less enjoyable :P
Although the connecting flight was on time, we were held at the platform due to air traffic control rerouting flights from congestion elsewhere. We waited for 2.5 hours, then boarded the jet and waited another half hour on the runway. Things could have been worse...it could have been snowing, or the flight could have been cancelled like the other connection to Philly. Jameson's connection actually left early, and he had to buy a whole new plane ticket :(

Anyway, we both got to where we were going eventually. My Mom and Aunt picked me up at the airport. It was great to see them! Equally great to sleep in a real bed that night :) The next day was pretty chill. We were supposed to go to a Bible study, but it was cancelled due to snow. The snow was beautiful and didn't build up on the road. Mom and I enjoyed catching up and cooking dinner together.

The next day we got up SUPER early to take my aunt to an appointment, then to a class (she's studying to be a nurse). My aunt has recently had shoulder surgery and couldn't move her arm well, so I stuck around to take notes. It was math. MATH, people!! My nemesis!



After that experience, we had lunch together and hung out for a bit, then Mom and I made dinner. I seasoned the fish. And totally blew it. It was SUPER spicy. For those of you who don't know, I am a horrible cook. We choked the meal down and enjoyed another relaxing evening.

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As you could tell from my last post, there were several dark days between San Fran and Sacramento.
Many people took advantage of the time by going on trips.
Several friends went to Lake Tahoe.

Many people also went to see Illusion Fusion,
a magic show starring Alex Ramon, the former ringmaster of Zing Zang Zoom.


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Tuesday:
The week got off to a relaxing start with no train run :)
The train will stay in San Jose, and we will commute via charter bus to the Cow Palace in San Francisco.
The band will be using the tech van, hooray!
Because of the long commute, it is likely that some people will sleep overnight at the arena.

Today I got to do a volunteer PR at Family House SF.
While the clowns entertained the kids, we volunteers reorganized donation containers for Family House.



Although the turnout was a little lower than expected, the kids seemed to have a good time :)



(all photos courtesy Family House SF)

The Stroopie Gourmet was there to 'cater' the event.
Have you ever had a super thin waffle, sliced in half, layered with caramel and jam?
Made right in front of you and served piping hot?
If not, add these guys to your foodie list! NOM NOM NOM!



After a very long ride back to the train, I walked to a nearby Chinese grocery.
I didn't need anything but had to check it out, and am sorry I did because now I'll be tempted to buy
lots of new exciting foods :P
I exercised some restraint and only got white pepper, durian jam, almond jello, and some fruit.


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